Advantages and Disadvantages of Online Dating

 

Some of the advantages of Online Dating:

  • You’re in control of time:

Online dating has the advantage of flexibility of time. If you think you are going “very fast” in the relationship and it is a very early stage then it is easier to manifest when you have to confront the person face to face;

The same applies if you want to know someone better. In short, the pressure that would exist if the same situation were to occur in “real” life is minimized.

  • Distance comfort is better to create a greater connection in a relationship:

Not surprisingly, psychologists have found that humans are more expressive with strangers when we are at a safe distance. We are not defensive and are more open, which means that we are willing to show an absolutely true image of ourselves. You can “test” your future appointments before saying hello.

  • Helps you to define what you’re looking for:

With established online dating sites people can reach out to a bigger audience of individuals interested in making friends, dating, companionship and many more such relationship expectations.There are many more singles available,most people are limited to a certain social group (family, friends or work) when it comes to meeting people. However with the use of Internet, opportunities to interact with others in a shorter period of time increases. It is also more likely that you can find someone who shares your same tastes and interests in a dating online than at a party or social event.

  • Disadvantages of online dating:

Of course, online dating also has its own disadvantages. Who does not feel suspicious over to find publications, profiles and fake photos? Clearly, this system is not perfect, which means you have to rule out many potential candidates (which do not really exist) before finding your perfect match. In addition, there is plenty of competition, as each prince there is several princesses trying to capture their interest and vice versa.

Advantages and disadvantages are always going to exist, but ultimately, you have to be clear is that online dating is only one of many ways to meet people and under no circumstances should replace the way you interact with others face to face. However, it is possible to have an Internet connection by a deeper connection, which may result in romance. Who knows, the next happy history of online dating can be yours.

 

What is sexology? Who is a sexologist? What is sex therapy?

 

We begin this journal by explaining the basic terms that are often used to clarify the differences between each of them for our readers.

What is sexology?

Sexology is the scientific study of issues related to sexuality and sex life from the point of genital, physiological, social and psychological; this biopsychosocial covering all the aspects of human sexuality.

Who is a sexologist?

A sexologist is a professional sexology applying that knowledge in sex therapy in order to solve the sexual problems of people.

What is sex therapy?

Sex therapy is a systematic process established jointly by the client and the professional, consisting of techniques and strategies for analysis, assessment and treatment of sexual problems.

 

If we look at the people who come to the consultation by sex, in our case, there is no great difference between women and men, although, when they come in pairs and not individually, the woman is usually that encourages men to come to therapy.

How healthy is your sex life ? Ask these questions to know

When the new year begins you wonder how was your sex life last year? What questions would be good that we did on this issue in order to improve it?

There are three very important question in the sexual life of each person things: the frequency with which I have sex, the intensity of those relations and the level of satisfaction or welfare of such decisions in my life. These three factors can give us valuable information on how my sex life if I want to stop and think and reflect on it. However, and to facilitate this assessment of our sex life, we present below is a small test, in which you can obtain an overall quantitative score on this topic.

1. When you go to start a sexual relationship, there are words, kisses, bites, caresses, games or other physical or mental stimulants interaction in which there is still no genitalia?
2. Do I have genital satisfactory practices manual, oral or other sex before penetration time you would like?
3. Do I have orgasms during intercourse although not penetration?
4. My partner and I have intercourse orgasms during intercourse?
5. When I have sex I miss my daily life?
6. Do I like the number of relationships I have?
7. Do I like the range of sexual practices that I have?
8. Both of us were satisfied after sexual intercourse?
9. When I have sex I remain physiologically satisfied?
10. Do I feel full psychologically with my sex?

Major sexual problems in Men – Erectile dysfunction and delayed ejaculation

It is physiologically easier to know what an orgasm, this being a response to excitation, in which muscle contractions occur in the vulva, vagina and uterus that often accompanied by a feeling of intense physical pleasure.

As for men, sexual problems that often turn these are impotence or erectile dysfunction, delayed ejaculation, inhibition ejaculation and premature ejaculation.

Erectile dysfunction is the inability or difficulty getting or maintaining an erection with sufficient quality to achieve a ratio of intercourse and ejaculation successfully.

Delayed ejaculation is one in which a desired excess delay ejaculation. In the inhibition of ejaculation, it is that it does not occur despite the desire and attempts by the person. Premature ejaculation would be an early ejaculation and unwanted by the subject.

All these problems can have different causes: it can be an educational problem, a result of sexual trauma at an early age, it may be a result of vital problems like’re a couple problem could be secondary to another condition such as a depression, or have a problem of sexual interaction with a partner, so that flees sex to not experience failure we’ve already seen before.

Most common Sexual Problems and their Solutions

 

Within this article, we will try to clarify those most common issues that people have within the universe of sexuality and sexual relationships, which creates curiosities, stimuli for much of the world to move; but also fears and anxieties that occur often vitally important discomfort.

As for sexual problems, we will say that the most common that we see in women are lack of desire, arousal and problems with orgasm problems.

Lack of desire is the lack of appetite for sex, and can range from low sexual desire to aversion to sex.

Arousal problems are those that have to do with lack of sexual arousal maintained that there is a cause inhibition of normal physiological sexual response, which the person comes to not feel sexually aroused even if it wishes.

Orgasm problems, usually one of the most common problems that women go for consultation. Orgasm in women is from the point of quite complicated to describe psychologically, and therefore produces further doubts whether this is achieved or not.

 

The first thing to do in any case, is to see which variables are the cause of the problem and maintain that, in order to focus all treatment from start to finish are.

Once the diagnosis and having knowledge of certain facts of personality, the environment and the lives of our client, we can reach agreements and design joint treatment strategy, get to work to reach the solution of the problem, but beware ! It is not magic, but science, and training and dedication it takes to come to fruition and fix the problem.

Overcoming mental barriers on sex

If in our thoughts and in our test we appreciate that our sex life is not what we would or failure somewhere, it would be good that did us a serious question about it, asking ourselves, the first thing is to be aware of whether it is a personal problem, the couple, both sex or unwanted approaches vital that we move through inertia and have us trapped in the daily dynamics without stop and consider how to change them.

Then we should put the batteries and start, first, to become aware that something needs to be changed, grabbing medium fears that may cause the subject to be a topic like sex, or vertigo that changes may occur, the second , that change will not fall from the sky, so it is better to think that what does not actively change will never be changed, and finally spend the time and effort necessary good run to get where they want, because in any important thing in life, and sex is, there are no formulas wonderful, but progressive learning that then result in major life satisfactions.

Striking a balance between work and sexual life

 

According to surveys, a large proportion of people working would want to quit, and conversely, most of those without work would like to work.

one of the most important activities of our existence, is in principle to dedicate more time, we also serves to make a living, to establish social relationships, and our personal fulfillment.

On the one hand we feel that with our effort, we get a financial reward that allows us to live in us and our families, in addition to support the non-productive part of society.

On the other hand it serves for knowledge and interpersonal relationship, and human beings need social relationship in nature, in that the individual is part of a group formant. It is therefore eltrabajouna second source of gratification for obtaining social reinforcement.

Finally we get our work feel valued, self-realized, we note that we are a piece of gear that contributes to society and brings others himself.

So why do we live so badly?

The problem is not having to work, but the obligation, the fact of having to do something necessarily and makes us experience it as unpleasant, but not only have to perform certain functions, we must also do a number of tasks defined within a time set.

Therefore we will finish by saying that very important in our lives for the three (3) elements that contributes and we have already mentioned, we will be more pleasant to the extent that we do so more willingly, obtain greater satisfaction in the tares we make, we have more freedom in dosing the effort required and in moments of realization.

 

What are the methods for female orgasms ?

 

Let’s see:
• Masturbation: 4.37%
• clitoral orgasm: 45.15%
• Set among couples: 9.7%
• intercourse and clitoral orgasm: 10.3% (care that intercourse would not be worth just joined the clitoris)

A widespread rumor among the population is one that says women feign. Well, it’s not a rumor, it is a reality. Sometimes they pretend women and studies about corroborate.

Thus we have:
20.4% of women fake sometimes.
14.3% of women feign half the time.
93.9% of women feel forced to pretend.

After seeing, ie only 13.2% of women reach orgasm through intercourse, which many women pretend, etc. we can ask the key question: what is the use coitus then? Intercourse serves primarily to breed and some women reach orgasm this way.

If we focus a bit in 17.28% of women who can not reach orgasm, we can start with the problem that concerns this group of people and called anorgasmia.

A anorgasmic people we can divide them into two groups:
a) Women who come to see and know they have a problem (70.17%)
b) Women who do not believe have problems (23.73%)

 

Women who come to see and believe they have a problem, assuming that we are only talking about a anorgasmia without being joined other pathology, have good prognosis and even better if they are collaborators. Treatments are not usually long and the success rate is high.
Women who do not think they have problems, they usually have a worse prognosis and therapy is longer, but the fact is that not often go to therapy unless either by force majeure.

A anorgasmic in general, but especially a group of them who are single, old enough to flirt, socialize, make friends … it hard to relate to children, especially those who are attracted sexually, for fear that relationship, in a point, do need to confess your problem, ie, they have problems with so-called social skills; however, this problem with proper therapy is easily solved.

Female orgasm and its problems

Within sex, professionals have identified several phases or responses in sexual intercourse, one is orgasm, for better classification of sexual problems, because in the different phases are involved many different processes.

However, there are many theories regarding such classification and therefore varies the number of phases or responses by the author to whom we refer. Within the sexual response authors have named only three (Kinsey) or others who speak six (Carrboles and Sanz). The most used is the one proposed by Masters and Johnson proposed a division into four phases:

Probably, the name the word orgasm, most of the people related to intercourse, with this false relationship. You can reach orgasm through intercourse, but also can be reached this stage in many other ways that are not penetration and already talk.

Orgasm in women is a contraction of the muscle surrounding the vaginal opening, called pubococigeo muscle, and have a duration of approximately 0.8 seconds, with orgasm is considered the most pleasant moment of sexual response.

There are women in different studies, which have short descriptions on how to have experienced orgasm, some of them tell it well: “It is like heaven,” “is like uncorking a bottle of champagne”, “I know not explain but it seems that will give me a heart attack. ”

However, only 13.20% of women reach orgasm with intercourse and if we exclude the 17.28% that do not reach orgasm, 69.92%, as we said at the beginning, they have to get by some other method to orgasm.

What’s going on a while now in relationships – So many couples break up ?

Our culture has changed and is changing very quickly, what was once illegal, divorce, now it is not, which was previously difficult, at least it was a more complicated legal level, it is now much easier. But not only this, we live in a world that often causes us wrong expectations, where it seems that everything has to be wonderful and perfect, including relationships, as if that were not enough, every time tolerances have to frustration We not put up with almost nothing negative, including what our partner, anything that cost us some sacrifice, move away quickly from our lives, and this means that often couples who like and want to break, not spend effort to properly resolve their differences.

To further complicate things, the individual pathology program, which many people have, which are unaware they have it, and that makes them very difficult to have a stable relationship, either because they run away from having a partner appears even may not realize it, and then suffer from not having it, or because their partners break them much more frequently than normal, causing these breaks a major pain in their lives.

In the first group, they would be the people who produce them upset the couple because then they feel evaluated and this affects them too much, there are not enduring commitment and involvement necessary for a couple to go ahead, the need to face certain level of difficulty normal conflicts, without much basis fear that your partner break and break them before.

In the second group, we find those people, who unknowingly, his performance makes them very difficult to have a long distance couple, and as this is unconscious, can not find the reasons which cause these breaks. Here we find people who defend the couple constantly without these damaging them as they think they do, those little give and expect much more and those whose individualism is well above the couple.